Gemini man with taurus\aries cusp woman.temper temper!?

You sound like you are trapped! I take it you are the father of this baby? Are you 2 married? I read your old question on the same subject and it said you are just dating 2 months ago? Ouch Oh dear! I was in similar situation, I am too born in 1971 & Gemini, I was with a guy born 19th May, I dont agree too much with the cusp thing but here you go, in hindsight, he was a person who wanted to get married by the end of our first date, he jumped into things far to fast for me or most people I think. He felt, I later learned, that he simply HAD to get married and settle down and have kids because he saw no other way of life. All his friends and brothers were settling down and he just HAD to be in "The Club". He seemed desperate to have a girlfriend and then wanted me to adore him before I even knew him. He expected me to spend every waking moment with him and when we were together only a short time he expected me to move in with him. I did not. He was ok sometimes but if I wanted to do my own thing he lost his head and ranted and raved and was always fighting his points accross. He turned everything into an arguement he could not rationally discuss anything without loosing his temper. It does not suit a grown man in my eyes. I tried to be patient and tell him I like to get that feeling like I know I want to be with him for life before I jump so far into the relationship. He never understood that I dont even think he really ever got to know me deeply he was just obsessed with the IDEA of being with someone and being in a couple and getting married and having children and he felt better in his ego if he had all those things to talk about with his family and friends whereas I think the guy did'nt even know himself yet never mind me. He was never looking at the bigger picture, like do you realise marraige and kids is for EVER? well, the kids are! I wanted to be sure, really sure that I loved him before all that big stuff and the more he demanded and tried to control the relationship the more I said "hold up, I dont need this desperate guy in my life, I hardly knew him and he was off the planet planning our future (His future!) without me really being into it at all. I had to let him go his temper made me very sad and I began to hate him for it. I knew I could not stay a lifetime with this man. I told him I was a much calmer person than him and did not feel so obsessed with the relationship as him and I walked away. He did'nt tell me he was hurt it was over, he just lost his temper again LOL he has to be the boss and needs to be with a girl who wants to be bossed around I am not that girl I am free and full of fun and so glad I left when I did. There are many people out there with no tempers and these people attract me. But you have the pregnancy and I thank God I did not end up in this situation. If she has a bad temper all through the remaining 4 months she is producing a lot of stress hormones not good for baby and if she cannot control her temper now or before the pregnancy What kind of partner will she be for you? She will have a lot of extra work with a young baby and no sleep! I think you have trouble ahead. I also have 3 other aries friends 2 of which are aries/taurus cusp, they too have very bad tempers and now that I am writing they are also always wanting to be boss. I back off when they are like this and dont let them too close as I have seen how they bully. I cannot really tell you what to do as you are expecting a baby so it would be very hard to break up as you would be seen to be the bad one but you dont indicate whether you want to stay or leave? Also, from the chinese zodiac you are a pig and pigs get along very well with roosters or rabbits she is a sheep and should be with a snake or an ox. P.S. I am not very well read on the chinese but I have read some. Good luck I hope you get out the other side ok.